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Online Shopping Tips for Men (How to Buy Clothes Like a Pro)

Published on March 29, 2016 by Brock McGoff · Clothing and Style May contain affiliate links (what's this?)

Do you shop for clothes online? Some guys love buying clothes online, while other guys hate it with a passion.

Here’s what I believe:

In order to be a stylish shorter man, you need to be willing to shop for clothes online.

In fact, you have to be really good at it.

If you think online shopping is a frustrating experience, or if you refuse to do it at all, this post is for you.

Buying clothes online

The truth is, buying clothes online can save you time and money. But you might not believe me. You might be thinking:

What if what I buy doesn’t fit?

I can’t try it on before I buy…

It’s a pain to return stuff I don’t like.

I hate paying for shipping.

How do I know my size?

These are all valid concerns, but they shouldn’t hold you back from buying your clothes online. In fact, these potential pitfalls can be avoided, and I’m going to teach you how.

TRENDING: How to Save Money on Clothes opens in a new window

I’m an avid online shopper, and I buy pretty much all of my clothes online. So I’ve become really good at online shopping.

I’ve learned a few tricks over the years, and right now I’m going to reveal six strategies I use to make shopping online a positive and rewarding experience.

Tip #1: Buy stuff you know and love (and that fits)

This one is no brainer. If you’ve already tried something on, and you know you like it (it fits well and goes with the rest of your wardrobe), it’s safe to buy it online.

For example, if you’ve worn out a pair of chinos and just need a fresh replacement, or maybe you just want to add another pair in a different color to your wardrobe.

Skip the store and buy it online.

I do this all the time with shoes. I know that any Cole Haan shoe in size 7.5 will fit me perfectly, so I can buy a new pair online with confidence.

Tip #2: Don’t buy anything that can’t be returned

Sometimes you’ll come across these clearance deals where you can get 40-80% off clothing and accessories, but always read the fine print.

Final sale warning
Look for this warning…

Oftentimes, these clearance deals are for “final sale” items, which means whatever you buy can’t be returned – even if it doesn’t fit right.

Unless you’re absolutely positive that you won’t need to make a return (see tip #1), don’t buy final sale items.

Tip #3: Shop at stores that offer free shipping AND returns

Many clothing retailers, especially the big ones, offer free shipping and free returns these days. In fact, you’ll often find a pre-paid return label in the box.

At the very least, try to buy from places that offer free shipping. And keep in mind, while some stores offer free shipping all the time, many use it as a promotion.

Free shipping today only
Look for free shipping notifications like this one from J. Crew (usually on the top right of the website)

For example, J. Crew regularly offers “today only” free shipping. So if you have something from them on your wish list, but you don’t need it right away, you can wait for one of these free shipping deals before you buy it.

Tip #4: Wait for sales

There are amazing sales going on all throughout the year. In fact, for major brands like J. Crew or Nordstrom, you can be fairly certain that, on any given day, some sort of sale is going on.

If you can’t find a sale listed on the actual website (check the “bar” at the top of the site), you should use Google to find any active promo codes.

UPDATE: Just heard about this Chrome extension called Honey that automatically looks for working discount codes while you’re shopping (thanks, Alex).

Google search for discount codes
Always search for “brand + promo code” before purchasing!

Also, most online shops have a permanent “Sale” page where they keep a running list of discounted items.

If you’re patient, it’s possible to never pay full retail these days!

Tip #5: Buy multiple versions, and return whatever doesn’t fit

Not sure if you’re a S or XS? Trying a new shoe brand that might run big? No problem! Just order two or three sizes, and return whatever doesn’t fit.

Zappos order multiple sizes
My last Zappos order for winter boots (I ended up keeping the 7.5 and returning the 7).

Whether or not shipping is free, ordering multiple items won’t make shipping more expensive, so there’s really no downside to this strategy (other than having to make the return).

I do this all the time when I’m ordering from big companies that offer free shipping and returns, like Zappos and Amazon. It’s especially helpful with shoes and boots.

You can do this with colors too. Say you’re buying a t-shirt. You should order three or four different colors and keep the ones you like best.

Tip #6: Try shopping secondhand before buying new

I love going to secondhand stores and thrift shops, mostly for the thrill of the hunt. Every now and then I’ll come away with a gem, like these Cole Haan loafers.

Tan trousers with brown loafers
Got these loafers for $20 at Goodwill

But most trips to the thrift store are just for fun. I rarely find anything worth buying.

It’s a different story when you’re shopping online, though. You have access to the biggest secondhand clothing shops in the world, right at your fingertips and from the comfort of your living room.

These shops are good for browsing, but you should definitely do a quick search before buying something new, especially if it’s an expensive “investment” piece.

Here’s a good list of virtual secondhand clothing shops:

  • Grailed (my personal favorite)
  • eBay
  • StyleForum
  • Ask Andy About Clothes
  • Dappered Threads

There are probably other places to buy and sell clothes online, but these are the big ones that are worth checking out.

BONUS TIP: Adopt the right mindset, and get used to it.

Dressing well isn’t easy. If it was, everyone would do it, which is why the vast majority of men don’t dress well.

It’s not convenient to get a haircut every three weeks or go to the dry cleaner regularly. It takes extra effort to get your clothes tailored and to drive to the post office to return something you bought online.

But it’s worth it. So if you’re the kind of guy who thinks shopping online is too risky and too much of a hassle, here’s my challenge to you:

Man up, and get used to it. Make it part of your weekly or monthly routine. It’s all a means to an end, and that end is looking good and feeling great.

Do you shopping for clothes online? Leave a comment below!

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About Brock McGoff

The Modest Man founder, Brock is an aspiring minimalist who enjoys working out, spending time with his family, discovering new brands and creating great content.

Background: Brock McGoff has a bachelor's degree in psychology and a professional background in digital marketing. He believes that men's fashion is just one facet of self-improvement, and he started The Modest Man to help regular guys feel more confident by improving their appearance.

An east coast native, Brock currently lives in Arizona with his wife and daughter. When he's not working, he spends time with family, training BJJ, reading/listening to books and podcasts, and unsuccessfully trying to decide which movie to stream.

Expertise: Brock has built a men's lifestyle YouTube channel with over 400k subscribers. He's also worked as the creative marketing manager in a men's apparel startup. Brock has been quoted in, mentioned by or featured in publications like Esquire, Huff Post, Men's Health, WWD and Forbes.

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  1. andhikadiskartes says

    April 4, 2016 at 4:02 am

    7. Read the product review.. Diggin to forums or blogger..I think that’s important too brock, I always learn from others before buy the new one.

    Reply
  2. Brian says

    April 1, 2016 at 8:06 am

    Brock, definitely agree on the first point. Only keep something if you really love it. I order almost exclusively online as well, and I end up returning probably 75% of the things I buy. If it doesn’t fit or i don’t like the design, I return it. No problem.

    The rule of thumb for me is, will this go to the top of my rotation? If it does, I keep it. If it doesn’t, I don’t. Usually it isn’t a hard decision.

    Important rule for newbies: don’t buy stuff just to fill your wardrobe! Especially if you are totally new to paying attention to attire, go easy as you figure out which styles you like.

    Reply
    • Brock says

      April 1, 2016 at 12:54 pm

      Solid advice.

      Reply
  3. Khoi N. (@lifeaskhoi) says

    March 29, 2016 at 11:44 pm

    Great tips, Brock. One more to add for the savvy shoppers out there. Use shopstyle.com. Essentially you can search for any article of clothing or shoe and shopstyle aggregates search results from every online retailer. For example, you want some olive chinos, just type “men’s olive chinos” and you’ll be met with styles from all over the web. You can get really specific in the search query, but even if you’re not, you can further narrow your search by brand, price, color, size, etc…It’s a huge timesaver. One more great thing about it is you can choose to get sale alerts sent to your inbox for any specific style that you have an eye on. Set it and forget it!

    Oh, and similar to Honey, there’s the Ebates browser extension that automatically applies any discounts upon checkout as well as any cash back that vendor may be providing. Most brands typically have 2-5% standard. Seems minute, but it adds up over time. Save some money by automation, I’m all for it!

    Lastly, I usually check Retailmenot for any promo codes as well.

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    • Brock says

      March 30, 2016 at 12:19 pm

      Nice, thanks for the pro tips!

      Reply
  4. Rollo says

    March 29, 2016 at 10:55 pm

    Lets keep something in mind. Free shipping and free returns are not free. I love Bonobos, for instance, but there is a reason they are a bit pricier than many other brands. The free stuff is built in to the price.

    Even so, if you are trying multiple sizes and fits, then it is nothing to complain about.

    Reply
    • Brock says

      March 30, 2016 at 12:20 pm

      True, you’re paying for it one way or another. It’s probably personal preference, but I’d rather not pay the perceived markup of shipping and returns. It’s fine with me if they want to bundle it into the price of the item.

      Reply
  5. Noel L. says

    March 29, 2016 at 10:46 pm

    Great post Brock! I took your advice and got my Polo dress shirts tailored (sleeves, length & darts). Best fitting shirts I have ever owned! Next up are made-to-measure shirts.

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    • Brock says

      March 30, 2016 at 12:20 pm

      Awesome, glad to hear that!

      Reply
  6. Ed from My Dapper Self says

    March 29, 2016 at 4:50 pm

    Great and useful post, Brock. Shopping online can be very hard when you are short, but even worse when you don’t live in the USA (or Europe).

    I loved the idea of buying different multiple versions and sending back what doesn’t fit – I’ll have to use that trick next time and save me some time and problems with stuff that won’t fit or just won’t look good on me.

    If you don’t mind me sharing some content with the other commenters, I recently published a post that shows how to use Google Alerts to save some money (and time) while shopping online. It can seem a bit technical, but it’s really very straightforward and user friendly. Here’s the post:

    http://mydapperself.com/how-to-use-google-alerts-to-save-money-shopping/

    Keep it up, Brock! Will you be in StyleCon 2017 again? (Hoping I can make it next year).

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    • Brock says

      March 29, 2016 at 5:02 pm

      Thanks for the tip. Great idea to use Google Alerts to monitor sales.

      Yes, will be at SC17…hope to see you there!

      Reply
  7. Adam says

    March 29, 2016 at 12:33 pm

    Reddit has a few sites too, like /r/frugalmalefashion and /r/malefashionmarket that are both great to shop from.

    Reply
    • Brock says

      March 29, 2016 at 1:04 pm

      True…love those subs.

      Reply

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