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About TMM Staff

The Modest Man staff writers are experts in men's lifestyle who love teaching guys how to live their best lives.

If an article is published under TMM Staff, that means multiple writers worked on it. For example, sometimes several of us have experience with a certain brand, so we collaborate to publish a more thorough review.

Or, if an article was originally written by one person, but then it was updated by someone else, we'll re-publish it under TMM Staff.

Remember: all of our articles (including those below) are written by real people with decades of combined experience in men's fashion and lifestyle topics.

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Every Husband Should Avoid These 18 Little Behaviors That Destroy Respect

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Dating & Confidence

Respect in marriage isn’t shattered by one big mistake–it’s eroded by countless small ones. The sighs, the dismissive tones, the forgotten courtesies–these things build Read more arrow about Every Husband Should Avoid These 18 Little Behaviors That Destroy Respect

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16 Things a Woman Will Always Notice First About a Man and What They Really Mean

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Dating & Confidence

A woman doesn't deliberately analyze every single thing when she meets a man for the first time. However, this doesn't mean she doesn't notice them either. She notices Read more arrow about 16 Things a Woman Will Always Notice First About a Man and What They Really Mean

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If a Husband Is Secretly Miserable, He’ll Start Saying These 15 Phrases Casually

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Dating & Confidence

Men aren't the most talkative or emotive of creatures when it comes to expressing their emotions. They don't articulate outright when they are unhappy; rather, they opt Read more arrow about If a Husband Is Secretly Miserable, He’ll Start Saying These 15 Phrases Casually

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17 Times Men Learn That Marriage Is The Ultimate Test of Patience

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Dating & Confidence

Marriage has a way of transforming even the most laid-back man into a philosopher of endurance. Between love and life’s unpredictable chaos, you learn that patience is a Read more arrow about 17 Times Men Learn That Marriage Is The Ultimate Test of Patience

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Women Love a Man With a Provider Mindset Because of These 15 Reasons

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Dating & Confidence

Let’s get one thing straight: women don’t swoon for a man just because he pays bills or owns a power drill (though, points for that too). What really hits different is Read more arrow about Women Love a Man With a Provider Mindset Because of These 15 Reasons

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16 Acceptable Reasons Why Some Couples Forgo Marriage and Focus on Their Relationship

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Dating & Confidence

So here’s the deal: not every couple dreams about a fancy wedding, champagne toasts, and that awkward moment when Uncle Rick dances to “Uptown Funk.” Some people skip the Read more arrow about 16 Acceptable Reasons Why Some Couples Forgo Marriage and Focus on Their Relationship

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17 Reasons Why Wives Should Also Cater To Their Husband’s Needs (And Not Just Theirs)

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Dating & Confidence

Marriage isn’t a “me” project. It’s a we deal. Somewhere between laundry day and scrolling through TikTok in bed, a lot of couples forget that men need care, too. They Read more arrow about 17 Reasons Why Wives Should Also Cater To Their Husband’s Needs (And Not Just Theirs)

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15 Reasons Why Married Couples Should Completely Forget About Gender Roles

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Dating & Confidence

Let’s be honest, gender roles in marriage are like those old “how to be a good housewife” pamphlets: outdated, dusty, and low-key hilarious. Marriage is hard enough Read more arrow about 15 Reasons Why Married Couples Should Completely Forget About Gender Roles

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16 Reasons Why Men Are Turned Off By Women Who Are Obsessed With Being “Independent”

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Dating & Confidence

Being independent is awesome. Pay your bills, plan your trips, fix your IKEA shelves. Love that for you. But when a woman won’t stop reminding everyone that she doesn’t Read more arrow about 16 Reasons Why Men Are Turned Off By Women Who Are Obsessed With Being “Independent”

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When a Woman Stops Doing These 17 Things, She’s Already Letting Go

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Lifestyle

When a woman starts to let go, it rarely happens overnight. It begins quietly, long before she ever walks away. Her silence grows where her effort used to live, and her Read more arrow about When a Woman Stops Doing These 17 Things, She’s Already Letting Go

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If Your Relationship Depends on These 18 Conditions, It’s Not Healthy Love

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Dating & Confidence

Love is meant to feel safe, not like an exam that can be failed at any moment. But when affection begins to depend on approval, agreement, or performance, it stops being Read more arrow about If Your Relationship Depends on These 18 Conditions, It’s Not Healthy Love

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If Your Relationship Feels “Off” in These 19 Ways, It’s Already Ending

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Lifestyle

It’s rarely the arguments that end a relationship, it’s the silence that follows. At first, the quiet feels like peace, but soon it becomes distant disguised as calm. You Read more arrow about If Your Relationship Feels “Off” in These 19 Ways, It’s Already Ending

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When Trust Breaks in These 17 Tiny Moments, It Never Fully Comes Back

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Dating & Confidence

Trust doesn’t vanish in an explosion of betrayal, it fades in small, almost forgettable moments. It slips away when promises are brushed aside, when truths are half-told, Read more arrow about When Trust Breaks in These 17 Tiny Moments, It Never Fully Comes Back

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19 Signs You’re Trying to Save a Relationship That’s Already Over

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Lifestyle

Love takes work, but when you’re the only one working, it turns into survival. It’s easy to confuse effort with progress, to believe that as long as you’re trying, Read more arrow about 19 Signs You’re Trying to Save a Relationship That’s Already Over

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17 Signs You’re With the Kind of Man Who Uses Silence as Punishment

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Lifestyle

Not every form of manipulation comes with shouting or visible anger. Sometimes, it comes through silence, deliberate, heavy, and calculated. When a man uses silence as Read more arrow about 17 Signs You’re With the Kind of Man Who Uses Silence as Punishment

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The 17 Everyday Behaviors That Make Partners Stop Feeling Seen

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Dating & Confidence, Lifestyle

Most relationships don’t end with shouting; they fade through silence. The disconnect starts when presence turns into proximity, when being together no longer means being Read more arrow about The 17 Everyday Behaviors That Make Partners Stop Feeling Seen

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Psychologists Say Men With These 15 Traits Are Seen as Universally Good Guys

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Lifestyle

Psychology gives us a clear picture of what those men have in common, and it’s not about charm or wealth. You don’t need to be perfect to be a genuinely good man. What Read more arrow about Psychologists Say Men With These 15 Traits Are Seen as Universally Good Guys

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15 Rare Qualities That Instantly Make a Man Truly One of a Kind

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Lifestyle

Every man wants to stand out, but few understand how. The truth is, the ones who leave a lasting impression usually aren’t the loudest in the room. They carry something Read more arrow about 15 Rare Qualities That Instantly Make a Man Truly One of a Kind

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15 Things That Make Women Fall for Men Beyond Physical Appearance

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Dating & Confidence

Let’s be real: muscles and jawlines might catch attention, but they don’t hold it. What actually keeps a woman drawn to you long after the initial spark has burned out Read more arrow about 15 Things That Make Women Fall for Men Beyond Physical Appearance

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17 Best (and Worst) Divorce Advice Men Get From Their Friends

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Dating & Confidence, Lifestyle

Everyone’s an expert once you mention divorce. Suddenly, your buddies turn into philosophers, lawyers, and therapists rolled into one. Some mean well and actually help Read more arrow about 17 Best (and Worst) Divorce Advice Men Get From Their Friends

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15 Eye-Opening Realities That Show Husbands Pay the Higher Price in Divorce

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Lifestyle

Divorce isn’t just expensive—it’s soul-draining, confusing, and unfair in ways most men never see coming. The truth is, when the dust settles, husbands often walk away Read more arrow about 15 Eye-Opening Realities That Show Husbands Pay the Higher Price in Divorce

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15 Best (and Worst) Parts of Starting Over After Divorce

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Lifestyle

Starting over after divorce feels like stepping into a world that’s both lighter and lonelier. You’re free, but you’re also stripped bare. The noise is gone, but so is Read more arrow about 15 Best (and Worst) Parts of Starting Over After Divorce

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17 Best (and Worst) Things About Getting Divorced No One Warns You About

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Lifestyle

Divorce doesn’t just end a marriage—it dismantles the version of yourself that existed inside it. It’s a strange mix of freedom and grief, confidence and confusion, peace Read more arrow about 17 Best (and Worst) Things About Getting Divorced No One Warns You About

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When Your Wife Still Talks to Her Ex: 17 Calm, Confident Ways to Deal

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Dating & Confidence

We have all been there, haven’t we? We have all had our fair share of lovers and exes before finally finding the one meant for us and settling down. Marriage is blissful, Read more arrow about When Your Wife Still Talks to Her Ex: 17 Calm, Confident Ways to Deal

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15 Signs That Show It’s Time to Reach Out for a Therapist for Couples

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Dating & Confidence

Love and passion in a relationship are not static; they go through a fair share of ups and downs. Many times, if you're not optimistic enough, you may see the transient Read more arrow about 15 Signs That Show It’s Time to Reach Out for a Therapist for Couples

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15 Reasons Men See Women as “Selfish” in Modern Dating

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Dating & Confidence

It is a fact that the modern dating landscape has shifted, and not in favor of men. Most men in present times silently come to terms with the realization that they are Read more arrow about 15 Reasons Men See Women as “Selfish” in Modern Dating

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15 Sad Reasons Why Some Good Relationships Don’t Last

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Dating & Confidence

Sometimes, both the man and the woman in a relationship seem to be gems of humans individually, but when they are together, no matter how wonderful, they will not Read more arrow about 15 Sad Reasons Why Some Good Relationships Don’t Last

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15 Unusual (And Surprisingly Real) Reasons People Have Filed For Divorce

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Dating & Confidence

When we hear of divorce, the most common reasons for divorce come to mind, like being cheated on, having financial struggles that gradually chip away at love, having Read more arrow about 15 Unusual (And Surprisingly Real) Reasons People Have Filed For Divorce

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15 Marriage Problems That Can’t Be Fixed No Matter What You Do

Updated on November 11, 2025 by TMM Staff · Dating & Confidence

Marriage is undoubtedly life’s most beautiful journey if you choose the right partner. With a wrong choice of a partner, your marriage may become a living hell, from Read more arrow about 15 Marriage Problems That Can’t Be Fixed No Matter What You Do

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15 Reasons Women Discourage Their Husbands’ Hobbies and What It Really Means

Updated on November 10, 2025 by TMM Staff · Dating & Confidence

Women aren't going to admit it, but they begin to despise their husbands' hobbies after a few years have passed in the marriage. She silently begins to dislike and Read more arrow about 15 Reasons Women Discourage Their Husbands’ Hobbies and What It Really Means

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