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About TMM Staff

The Modest Man staff writers are experts in men's lifestyle who love teaching guys how to live their best lives.

If an article is published under TMM Staff, that means multiple writers worked on it. For example, sometimes several of us have experience with a certain brand, so we collaborate to publish a more thorough review.

Or, if an article was originally written by one person, but then it was updated by someone else, we'll re-publish it under TMM Staff.

Remember: all of our articles (including those below) are written by real people with decades of combined experience in men's fashion and lifestyle topics.

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15 Brutal Realizations That Hit You When The One That Got Away Marries Someone Else

Updated on November 18, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

There is one person in all our lives who we loved and cherished, only to see them end up with someone else. The future that we had envisioned and the life we thought we Read more arrow about 15 Brutal Realizations That Hit You When The One That Got Away Marries Someone Else

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15 Common Reasons Why Some Men Give Up on Their Wives as They Get Older

Updated on November 18, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

Marriages that operate on the core principles of understanding, mutual growth, and respect have the potential to become invincible. While a marriage driven by ego, Read more arrow about 15 Common Reasons Why Some Men Give Up on Their Wives as They Get Older

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Husbands Don’t Need Much to Be Happy in Marriage Except For These 16 Things

Updated on November 18, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

Men are simple creatures for the most part. Theyโ€™re not begging for candlelit dinners or handwritten love notes every Friday (though they wouldnโ€™t say no). What keeps Read more arrow about Husbands Don’t Need Much to Be Happy in Marriage Except For These 16 Things

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A Man Can Only Tolerate So Much Before He Walks Away Because of These 16 Things

Updated on November 18, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

Every man has a limit. He might look calm, chill, or even unbothered, but deep down thereโ€™s a silent meter filling up, and once it hits โ€œenough,โ€ heโ€™s done. No warning Read more arrow about A Man Can Only Tolerate So Much Before He Walks Away Because of These 16 Things

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15 Things Sheโ€™ll Remember About Your Treatment When She Was Down

Updated on November 18, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

Every man thinks a woman remembers the expensive dinners, trips, and gifts. But when everything falls apart, when sheโ€™s hurting, tired, and unsure of herself, they Read more arrow about 15 Things Sheโ€™ll Remember About Your Treatment When She Was Down

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17 Double Standards in Marriage That Only Hurt Men

Updated on November 18, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Lifestyle

Marriage can be one of the most rewarding parts of life, but it often comes with invisible pressures for men. You work hard, try to support your family, and still feel Read more arrow about 17 Double Standards in Marriage That Only Hurt Men

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17 Ways Men Are Expected to Leadโ€”But Get Criticized When They Do

Updated on November 18, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Lifestyle

Being a man today can feel like trying to navigate a minefield. Youโ€™re expected to take charge, make decisions, and lead your family or teamโ€”but the moment you do, Read more arrow about 17 Ways Men Are Expected to Leadโ€”But Get Criticized When They Do

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When a Woman Finally Gives Up on You, These 16 Reasons Are to Blame

Updated on November 18, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

When a woman finally walks away, itโ€™s never out of the blue. Sheโ€™s been holding on, hoping things will turn around, but somewhere along the way, she realizes sheโ€™s the Read more arrow about When a Woman Finally Gives Up on You, These 16 Reasons Are to Blame

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18 Ways Modern Marriages Are Built Around Womenโ€™s Comfort, Not Menโ€™s Effort

Updated on November 18, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Lifestyle

Somewhere along the way, marriage stopped being about teamwork and turned into a balancing act where men carry the weight and women hold the measuring stick. Youโ€™re told Read more arrow about 18 Ways Modern Marriages Are Built Around Womenโ€™s Comfort, Not Menโ€™s Effort

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15 Things Wives Do in Marriage That Would Be Divorce-Worthy If Husbands Did Them

Updated on November 18, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Lifestyle

Letโ€™s be honestโ€”marriage isnโ€™t always the fair, balanced partnership we like to think it is. Some behaviors are instantly condemned when a man does them, yet brushed off Read more arrow about 15 Things Wives Do in Marriage That Would Be Divorce-Worthy If Husbands Did Them

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Is Your Spouse Treating You Unfairly? You’ll Know When You Spot These 15 Warning Signs

Updated on November 17, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

You know that uneasy feeling when something feels off in your marriage, but you canโ€™t quite name it? Like youโ€™re giving more than youโ€™re getting, or youโ€™re always the one Read more arrow about Is Your Spouse Treating You Unfairly? You’ll Know When You Spot These 15 Warning Signs

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17 Emotional Realities Women Face When They Move for a Man

Updated on November 17, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

So, she packed up her life and moved closer to you. Sounds like a fairytale, right? But moving for a man is a big emotional gamble most guys donโ€™t see coming. Sheโ€™s Read more arrow about 17 Emotional Realities Women Face When They Move for a Man

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15 Ways Women Try to โ€œFixโ€ Marriages That Men Donโ€™t Think Are Broken

Updated on November 17, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

Men often think a marriage is fine if thereโ€™s no fighting, bills are paid, and life runs smoothly. Meanwhile, their wives are rearranging the emotional furniture, trying Read more arrow about 15 Ways Women Try to โ€œFixโ€ Marriages That Men Donโ€™t Think Are Broken

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17 Signs Women Check Out Emotionally Long Before Men Notice

Updated on November 17, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

Letโ€™s get one thing straight: women rarely leave out of the blue. By the time she walks, sheโ€™s already walked away in her head weeks, months, maybe even years ago. You Read more arrow about 17 Signs Women Check Out Emotionally Long Before Men Notice

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15 Tips For Beating First Date Nerves

Updated on November 17, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

First dates are exhilarating, but theyโ€™re also nerve-wracking. The pressure to make a good first impression or the fear of being awkward causes first date jitters. It Read more arrow about 15 Tips For Beating First Date Nerves

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Itโ€™s Not Just Gaslightingโ€“Itโ€™s These 17 Subtle Psychological Tricks Instead

Updated on November 17, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

Gaslighting might be the term everyone knows, but itโ€™s far from the only psychological trick toxic people use. The truth is, manipulation often hides in plain sightโ€“under Read more arrow about Itโ€™s Not Just Gaslightingโ€“Itโ€™s These 17 Subtle Psychological Tricks Instead

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You Can Tell a Strong Man by These 17 Quiet Traits

Updated on November 17, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

True strength doesnโ€™t need to announce itself. You wonโ€™t find it in loud bravado, expensive watches, or social media flexes. Real strength is quiet, steady, and deeply Read more arrow about You Can Tell a Strong Man by These 17 Quiet Traits

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Most Men Miss These 18 Body Language Cues Women Give Away

Updated on November 17, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

Men often overthink what women say and miss what theyโ€™re showing. The truth is, women communicate a lot through subtle cuesโ€“small gestures, glances, or shifts in posture Read more arrow about Most Men Miss These 18 Body Language Cues Women Give Away

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Youโ€™ll Wish You Knew These 18 Marriage Truths Before Signing Papers

Updated on November 17, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

They say love is blindโ€“but marriage has 20/20 vision. The moment you tie the knot, youโ€™re not just sharing a last name or a home; youโ€™re merging habits, expectations, and Read more arrow about Youโ€™ll Wish You Knew These 18 Marriage Truths Before Signing Papers

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Every Happy Marriage Avoids These 17 Subtle Relationship Killers

Updated on November 17, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

Every marriage has its rough patchesโ€“but the happiest couples arenโ€™t the ones who never argue or disagree. Theyโ€™re the ones who learn to spot the small, sneaky habits Read more arrow about Every Happy Marriage Avoids These 17 Subtle Relationship Killers

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Forget Flowersโ€“These 18 Moves Actually Make Wives Feel Loved

Updated on November 17, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

Flowers are nice, but theyโ€™ve become the default โ€œI careโ€ gesture. What actually makes a wife feel deeply loved isnโ€™t a bouquetโ€“itโ€™s being seen, understood, and valued in Read more arrow about Forget Flowersโ€“These 18 Moves Actually Make Wives Feel Loved

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17 Signs Youโ€™re Choosing Peace Over Proving Youโ€™re Rightย 

Updated on November 17, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

Peace doesnโ€™t always look like victory, sometimes it looks like walking away. There comes a point when you stop trying to prove yourself to people committed to Read more arrow about 17 Signs Youโ€™re Choosing Peace Over Proving Youโ€™re Rightย 

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19 Habits That Keep You Stuck in One-Sided Relationships

Updated on November 17, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

One-sided relationships donโ€™t begin that way, they gradually shift as effort replaces equality. You start giving more, forgiving faster, and waiting longer, hoping things Read more arrow about 19 Habits That Keep You Stuck in One-Sided Relationships

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17 Traits That Make a Man Irreplaceable in a Womanโ€™s Life

Updated on November 17, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

The men who leave a lasting imprint on a womanโ€™s life rarely need to announce their value. They show it through steadiness, integrity, and emotional awareness that make Read more arrow about 17 Traits That Make a Man Irreplaceable in a Womanโ€™s Life

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19 Little Things That Mean More to a Woman Than โ€œI Love Youโ€ย 

Updated on November 17, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

For most women, โ€œI love youโ€ isnโ€™t the proof, itโ€™s the punctuation. The real message lies in what happens between those words: the tone, the patience, the attention. Love Read more arrow about 19 Little Things That Mean More to a Woman Than โ€œI Love Youโ€ย 

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19 Habits That Keep Attraction Alive Long After the Honeymoon Phase

Updated on November 17, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

Attraction doesnโ€™t disappear after the honeymoon phase, it evolves. What once felt thrilling becomes steady, but that steadiness can be just as magnetic when nurtured Read more arrow about 19 Habits That Keep Attraction Alive Long After the Honeymoon Phase

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16 Unfortunate Consequences of Marrying a Person Who’s Still Stuck in the Past

Updated on November 17, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

Everyone has a history, sure. But some people treat theirs like itโ€™s a permanent address. They keep living there, mentally, emotionally, and sometimes even verbally Read more arrow about 16 Unfortunate Consequences of Marrying a Person Who’s Still Stuck in the Past

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16 Ways You’re Silently Breaking Your Wife’s Heart (And You Don’t Even Notice It)

Updated on November 17, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

Have you ever looked at your wife and felt like somethingโ€™s off, but you canโ€™t quite put your finger on it? Sheโ€™s there, smiling, doing her thing, but the warmth Read more arrow about 16 Ways You’re Silently Breaking Your Wife’s Heart (And You Don’t Even Notice It)

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17 Traits That Reveal Youโ€™re Intimidated by Strong Women

Updated on November 17, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

You can tell a lot about a man by how he handles a woman who doesnโ€™t need him to validate her. Some admire it. Others flinch. If youโ€™re being honest, the idea of a woman Read more arrow about 17 Traits That Reveal Youโ€™re Intimidated by Strong Women

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15 Signs a Manโ€™s โ€œConfidenceโ€ Is Just Arrogance in Disguise

Updated on November 17, 2025 by TMM Staff ยท Dating & Confidence

Thereโ€™s a fine line between being confident and being full of yourself. One earns respect quietly, the other demands it loudly and loses it fast. Real confidence doesnโ€™t Read more arrow about 15 Signs a Manโ€™s โ€œConfidenceโ€ Is Just Arrogance in Disguise

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