Words of attraction are often captured before a person makes a definitive declaration of their feelings. It is common for women to not state their feelings directly. This is especially true when they are uncertain how the man feels about them. Instead, they use their interest to facilitate a number of small phrases and comments. Although these comments might appear plain, they possess a lot of emotional value. These comments signal curiosity, affection, and the wish to be close to a given individual. When a woman begins to develop feelings for a man, the phrases and words she uses will soften, and the things she says will be directed toward the man she has feelings for.
While the things you are about to read might not be a declaration of love, they are likely to show you where her heart is in the given moment. These 15 phrases are meant to show you that if you hear a woman say one of these things to you, her feelings for you are likely more than friends.
I Feel Comfortable Talking to You
People will often say comfort will be the first step to emotional attraction. When a woman says she feels comfortable talking to you, she is doing more than saying something polite. She is saying that you are so good of a presence that she feels comfortable enough to let her guard down. People will only feel comfortable when they feel safe, warm, and are understood.
Judgement, ridicule, and dismissal do not concern her, and she views a person who offers her some emotional relief as significant.
I Was Just Listening To What You Said
This shows she spent some time revisiting your words, and mentally she has created some space for you. Most women don’t revisit conversation unless there is a value attached to what they are saying. In this case, she is granting you a valuable possession, her mental space. Clearly your conversation carried great weight to her as she was reflecting on it outside of the conversation. When she re-visits your ideas and memories she is emotionally bought in on the connection.
I Need You To Text Me When You Get Home
This is more of a request than a command. She wants to express her concern for you, and needs some evidence of your safety. If she is requesting this, it shows emotional attachment and concern. Many women reserve this level of worry for their significant others. It is a sign of connection and shows that she will experience anxiety about your well-being until she hears from you. If you are not responding, she is saying that she is more concerned about your safety than she is willing to show.
I Appreciate Your Unique Perspective
Attraction is ignited when someone admires the way a person thinks.
Meaning, she enjoys your reasoning, your jokes, your ideas, your perspective, etc. Women don’t just say this for no reason. At this point, she is complimenting your mind which is far deeper than surface level traits. She is connecting with your inner world. If you are able to earn this level of appreciation, you have earned genuine admiration. This is a strong indicator of romantic interest.
You Always Make Me Smile
Having a warm or positive emotional reaction is among the first signs of attraction. When she says this, she means you’ve positively influenced your mood, which means she finds joy in her life. She means to say that she enjoys your company. People don’t just say this when a connection feels shallow for them.
I Trust You
Trust is not a given. When she says this, she is exposing her emotional vulnerability. Most women, trust is a lengthy process formed from careful observation and intuition. She feels you are safe enough to share her feelings and thoughts, which is a strong indicator of affection.
When a woman is secure in a relationship with a man, feelings tend to go deeper.
I Appreciate That
When someone says, “I like that about you,” it implies that particular traits stand out, not in a general way, but in a positive way. A woman may mention someone’s attributes like persistence, patience, or resilience, humor, or kindness. For her to mention such things, it means she appreciates you for who you are. It is a good sign to pay close attention.
What about Your Life?
When someone asks, “What about your life?” means that some level of investment has been made. She may ask about your past, your future, or the goals, challenges, or experiences that you have on a daily basis. This means that she is emotionally invested in the relationship. She wants to go beyond the surface and get to the bottom. Questions about your past and your habits are mostly to your future spouse. The level of interest she has is rarely about more than surface attraction.
Are you Serious?
Caring means that a woman has noticed something. It is a good sign to observe behavioral changes. If she has noticed a sudden change in your body language, it means she really cares.
“I’m checking in on you” shows caring sensitivity towards you beyond words. Your emotional state is evident on her behalf due to the level of emotional involvement. Such awareness usually only develops from deep feelings towards a person.
I Feel I Can be Myself with You
This is a milestone statement in a relationship. When she says this first, it means she has been suppressing her true self to appear a certain way in your presence. She has accepted emotional vulnerability by presenting her true self before you. Such total openness is a testament of deep trust, emotional security, and intimacy. To a great extent, this is a milestone of affection.
You Should Tell Me if You ever Need Anything
This is an emotional investment on her part. Women do not show emotional availability to every man. When she does this, she is letting you, from now on, to be a part of your life in a practical sense that you can count on, and she wants to be there. The way she offers emotional support shows she provides an investment to your emotional state which also is a wider context.
I Remembered You Like this
Caring about your likes and disinterests in a relationship is a twin marker of deep emotional involvement.This shows that you’ve been noted, whether it be your favorite food, song or even little details. Something like that shows that she remembers the little things, a sign that shows that she cares about what you like or what you do. Details about people she is emotionally invested in seem to stick with women.
I Feel Better When I Talk to You
This statement usually shows that your presence is either relaxing or uplifting. It speaks about emotional support and a sense of intimacy that is usually lacking. Typically this sensation is felt when two people are connected emotionally. Her feeling good when she talks to you, speaks a lot, and is a strong sign of attachment.
I Wish You Were Here
Saying this is one of the biggest signs of attraction. It means that she thinks about you and wants to be around you, even in her private moments. It means that she feels your absence emotionally, and she wishes to have any of the shared moments with you. This almost never goes to people she considers only a friend.
I didn’t Tell Anyone else this, But…
Trusting you enough to share things that she doesn’t share with anyone else is a strong sign of emotional intimacy.
Confiding in someone is not easy, and when she tells you something she has not discussed with anyone else, she has put you in a different, more important, more trusted category. This kind of openness is reserved for someone she trusts a great deal. The act of sharing emotionally is a sure sign that a woman is feeling more than friendship.
Final Thoughts
Women have a tendency to express their feelings for someone they like in a quieter way. Instead of obvious and direct expressions, she will use suggestive and subtle speech that alludes to a combination of trust, love, admiration, and emotional interest. Through these fifteen examples, she is hoping to leave an open invitation for you to engage more with her.
Women can express things very emotionally, and gently. When she compliments you, asks how you are doing, remembers things about you, reacts positively to what you say, tells you she feels safe around you, and/or talking to you is easy for her, you can be sure that she is creating an emotionally intimate relationship. Attraction can be quiet, soft, and gradual, yet it can be unmistakable once you know what to look for.
If you have observed many of these statements being used, then it is safe to say that her feelings are likely growing, even if she hasn’t summoned the courage to say it yet.
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