First dates can be the most exciting ones, wrapped in anticipation, mystery, and nervousness. For women the first impression is the last one, which stands true as they evaluate a man’s personality and whether or not to take things forward from the very first interaction. How a man speaks, his tone, and his choice of words all leave an impression in her mind. So, if you’re going on a first date with a woman, be prepared.
Here is a list of 15 things women want to hear from the men on their first date.
I’m Really Glad We’re Doing This
This sentence is her sign to believe you were looking forward to meeting her just as much as you anticipated this date. She understands that it’s a two-sided effort, as you were equally interested in being with her.
You Look Great
Women are all for compliments about their looks when you tell them they look great. She will be over the moon. This will set the tone for the rest of the time you will both have together. It’s definitely going to be very pleasant.
Tell Me More About That
If you listen to her attentively, she sees it as your interest in her. Women love men who actually listen to understand when she is telling you something and you ask her to tell you more; she finds you irresistible. The most irresistible men are those she can lean on.
I Really Like How You Think
Deep down women want to be seen beyond their appearance; they really like it when someone tells them they find their thinking amazing. Women love to be appreciated for their wits and qualities besides just looks.
You Have a Great Laugh
Laughter is a great way to bond with someone; when you tell her you really like her laugh, she may feel valued and seen for even the smallest aspects of her personality. And this makes them more relaxed around you.
I Feel Comfortable With You
A first date is marked with nervousness; when you meet them the first time, you both are strangers to each other. After a little chat, if you tell her her presence makes you so comfortable, she will feel safe to be herself around you. And open up without feeling silently judged.
What You Just Said Is Impressive
Women love supportive men; when she talks about her ambitions, her career, and her goals in life, a simple statement affirming her ambitions could go a long way. She will develop instant respect and admiration for you, as she views you as a secure man who won’t be intimidated by her success but will appreciate it.
I’ve Been Really Looking Forward to Tonight
This statement alone is enough to make her realize you set aside time especially to be with her and really looked forward to seeing her. She sees this date as intentional rather than a deadline to be met. These simple positive words can make your evening together beautiful.
I’m Curious About Your Story
This is a great way to express your curiosity about knowing her most personal details. She will see you as a safe person who she can confide in, seeing your genuine interest in her.
I Like That You’re Passionate About That
When she talks about the things she is passionate about, encouraging her and praising her for being so ambitious will make her fall in love with you, as you value her beyond the surface.
I Respect How You Handled That
If she starts telling you about an event where she was met with a challenge that she overcame smartly, tell her how you respect her problem-solving skills. This may sound like an unromantic statement but it’s highly empathetic. Trust me, it helps build trust as she finds you respecting her skills, not just her face and beauty.
Being Here With You Is Enjoyable
Share a few jokes and laughs with her; when you feel comfortable around someone, you are naturally your true, authentic self and can express yourself the way you want. When you tell her that you enjoyed her company, she finds it as a sense of relief that you will be celebrating her success alongside her.
You’ve Really Made Me Think
When she says something meaningful, it’s a great time for you to tell her how thought-provoking her words were and that they made you think about that aspect as well. Letting her know she showed you a new perspective will make her feel appreciated and respected for her opinion.
I’m Glad We Met
Ending your date on a pleasant note, that is, by telling her how happy you are to have met her, makes her keep thinking about you and your next interaction. This is the best way to keep her interest in you.
I’d Love to Continue This Sometime
When the time to bid farewell arrives, have her know that you look forward to continuing from this point the next time you meet. This reveals your interest in advancing the relationship with her and a possibility of a serious commitment to her.
Final Thoughts
In the end, on a first date, what a woman hears from you matters just as much as what she sees in you. If you’re more concerned about pulling your best look for the date, you must also be well prepared to speak with authenticity, sincerity, and respect. The words uttered with intention can help you win her heart and leave a lasting impression on your very first meetup; such a connection holds a promising future.
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