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How I Learned About Fashion, Blogging and Business

Published on August 26, 2017 by Brock McGoff · Dating & Confidence May contain affiliate links (what's this?)

I didn’t go to school for fashion, writing or online business. Most of what I know came from self-directed learning.

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It’s never too late to learn a new skill, and the best time to start is right now.
Note: Thanks to Skillshare for sponsoring this post! Skillshare is an online learning platform with more than 17,000 classes on business, photography, fashion and more. Click here to check it out!

Here’s a question I get all the time:

“Did you go to school for fashion?”

The answer is no, I didn’t. And I didn’t go to school for business, marketing, writing or video production either.

Yet, here I am, teaching other men how to dress well and making a living running my own blogging and YouTube business.

I’m not a web developer, but I know how to make a website.

I don’t have a business degree, but I’ve given presentations about business to hundreds of people.

Brock at SC17
Presenting at StyleCon 2016 (click here to watch)

I have no formal training in fashion, but I know my way around a sewing machine, and I’ve helped many thousands of men figure out what to buy and how to dress.

How did I get here? How did I learn all of this stuff.

Well, I can tell you that it wasn’t raw intelligence that got me here, and it definitely wasn’t formal education either.

I learned much of what I know about fashion and business through self-directed learning.

Self-Directed Learning

Self-directed learning is when you choose to learn new skills, on your own accord, to advance your station in life or for sheer enjoyment.

This can take many forms, from one off classes at your local community college to free YouTube video tutorials or paid online courses.

These days, almost anything you want to learn about is available, often for free. But it’s usually worth paying for a premium learning experience, especially since even paid courses are way cheaper than formal education.

For example…

As a shorter man, I have to get almost all of my pants hemmed. If I don’t get them hemmed, I look like a little kid wearing hand-me-downs.

And this sucks because it means that I have to spend extra time and money at the tailor.

Don’t get me wrong: it’s worth it. But I always knew that this was a something I could probably learn how to do myself.

So I commandeered my girlfriend’s old sewing machine and found two Skillshare classes that are teaching me everything I needed to know to hem a pair the jeans the right way – by keeping the original hem.

  • Class #1: Sewing Machine Basics
  • Class #2: How to Hem Jeans

I won’t lie to you and say that learning how to hem jeans is a walk in the park. It takes practice, and I recommend using some jeans you don’t care about or getting some cheap ones from the thrift store to practice on.

But I know this is a skill I can master with the right instruction, and I have no doubts that you could master it too.

Now, I’m not saying you have to learn this specific skill, although it is very practical, especially for shorter men.

But I want to challenge you to learn ANY new skill, and sooner than later. Like this week, or even today. Why not start right now?

To give you a few ideas, here are three Skillshare classes that look very appealing:

How to make a bow tie#1: Learn how to make a bowtie (check it out)

Like me, you probably lots of old shirts lying around. Maybe some questionable prints or patterns that you wouldn’t really want to wear anymore.

Wouldn’t it be cool to turn them into handmade bowties? Imagine what you could say when someone asked where you got it!

Mobile photography#2: Learn iPhone photography (check it out)

These days, we all have extremely powerful cameras in our pockets, all day every day. Wouldn’t it be nice know how to really use them and get the most out of them?

Plus, you never know when you’ll be asked to take a photo for someone. It’s a good idea to know the basics of photography.

Not to mention, who doesn’t want more Instagram followers, am I right?

(Okay, maybe that’s just me…)

Grilling over live fire#3: Learn how to cook with fire (check it out)

This just seems like one of those masculine skills that would be awesome to learn. It would sure take camping to the next level!

Or just pick something random that you’ve always been fascinated by. It doesn’t matter if it’s related to your career or if it has any practical application in your life.

Sometimes it’s better if it’s totally unrelated to your work. If you work on a computer all day, for example, try to learn a skill that has nothing to do with screens or computers the Internet.

I Challenge YOU

Learning a new skill can be one of the most rewarding ways to spend your time. The learning process is valuable, in it of itself. And it’s never too late to learn something new.

So I challenge you to learn a new skill now, not later.

Dating & Confidence hem pants, self improvement, sp

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About Brock McGoff

The Modest Man founder, Brock is an aspiring minimalist who enjoys working out, spending time with his family, discovering new brands and creating great content.

Background: Brock McGoff has a bachelor's degree in psychology and a professional background in digital marketing. He believes that men's fashion is just one facet of self-improvement, and he started The Modest Man to help regular guys feel more confident by improving their appearance.

An east coast native, Brock currently lives in Arizona with his wife and daughter. When he's not working, he spends time with family, training BJJ, reading/listening to books and podcasts, and unsuccessfully trying to decide which movie to stream.

Expertise: Brock has built a men's lifestyle YouTube channel with over 400k subscribers. He's also worked as the creative marketing manager in a men's apparel startup. Brock has been quoted in, mentioned by or featured in publications like Esquire, Huff Post, Men's Health, WWD and Forbes.

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