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How to Look Taller and Leaner (10 Simple Tips)

Published on March 5, 2021 by Brock McGoff · Clothing and Style May contain affiliate links (what's this?)

These 10 techniques will help you dress in a way that makes you look as tall and lean as possible.

While your clothes can’t actually make you go from 5’6” to 6’2”, they can definitely make you look slightly taller and leaner than you really are.

On the flip side, the wrong clothes will make anyone look shorter and even fatter than they really are.

In this guide, I’m going to run through 10 extremely simple tips you can use to make sure your clothes are working for you, and not against you.

What’s wrong with being short?

I want to remind you that there’s nothing wrong with being short. No one chooses their height. No one earns their height.

Much of how we look is determined by the genetic hand we were dealt, and it’s really important to accept yourself and find ways to feel confident that have nothing to do with your physical appearance.

In bare feet, I’m just under 5’6”. As a younger guy, this was a huge source of insecurity for me. But as I’ve gotten older and focused on self-improvement and acceptance, I’ve come to be proud of who I am, and that includes my body.

GATs medium wash jeans 6
I’m 5’6″ with shoes on, after yoga 😉 | shoes | jeans | sweater

Also, style doesn’t have to be about maximing your perceived physique. If you just want to use fashion to express your creativity or personality, go for it.

Maybe you feel awesome in oversized, slouchy fits. That’s great…wear them and don’t worry about how tall your outfits make you look.

For me, I feel best wearing clothes that enhance my physique, and to be honest, I’ve gotten pretty good at it.

So without further adieu, here are 10 tips to dress taller and leaner…

Tip #1: Wear clothes that fit

You’ve heard it before, and hopefully you’re already making this a priority.

But just in case you’re not convinced about the power of fit, just look at these two pictures of me wearing a suit.

Suit fit good vs bad
Left: off the rack, Right: custom made

The suit that doesn’t fit makes me look shorter and heavier than I really am. I look like a kid playing dress up!

But the suit that does fit makes me look thin and elongates my figure, making me look taller. I look way more mature and professional too.

If you want to look taller, trim the fat out of your outfits. I’m not saying you have to wear skinny fit clothes, but slim, tailored pieces will be more flattering than straight cuts or relaxed fits.

GATs corduroys sweater 11
These clothes aren’t skinny (they’re actually very comfortable), but they do fit properly. | shoes | corduroys | sweater

If you don’t want to buy new clothes, I highly recommend finding a tailor and letting them alter your clothes for a better fit. I get most of my clothes tailored, and I can tell you that it’s totally worth the time and money.

Fit is especially crucial for formal clothing like suits. So if you have clothes that don’t fit, the first step is to find a good tailor.

Tip #2: Wear solid, dark colors

You’ve probably heard that the color black is “slimming” and that people who want to look thinner should wear dark colors.

But did you know that darker clothing also makes you look taller? It’s true. Here’s why:

Dark colors eliminate shadows.

Minor imperfections like shadows and wrinkles are super noticeable in lighter-colored materials.

Wear dark colors

On darker fabrics, these shadows blend in with the fabric and become virtually invisible.

Grey t-shirt black jeans

The net result of this is a clean, streamlined silhouette of your body.

Plus, dark colors eliminate contrast.

Our eyes are really good at seeing shapes. Shapes are created by contrast. It’s all about how you look against your background.

While lighter colors reflect light and pop out from the background, dark colors absorb light and recede into the background.

Just look at this image – which line looks thicker?

Black is slimming
These lines are the same width.

They’re actually the same size, but dark colors are slimming.

I’m not saying you have to wear all black. I really like color combinations that use navy, dark grey, burgundy, brown and dark green.

Tip #3: Make sure your accessories are proportionate

Ever see a guy with super thin wrists and really small hands wearing a huge watch with a 45mm case and oversized, chunky strap?

It makes his wrist and hands look tiny and your wrist look thin, so you want to make sure your accessories are proportionate to your build.

Big watch vs small watch
Top: oversized monstrosity, Bottom: 37mm Seiko SNK809

If you’re a smaller, thin guy, you should wear small, thin accessories.

In the same way, if you have huge forearms and hands, you should wear a bigger watch that doesn’t look unnaturally tiny on your wrist (although even bigger guys can get away with wearing smaller watches).

It’s not just watches. It’s all accessories. For example, think about neck ties. If you’re a small guy, you don’t want to wear a wide tie and use a full Windsor knot.

Instead, go with a slim tie and a four in hand knot, and make sure you ties don’t go past your waistline to avoid looking even shorter.

Green suit with navy tie
For shorter, simmer guys, a simple four-in-hand tie knot works well.

If you have a narrow face, many “one size fits all” sunglasses will be too wide, making your face look even narrower.

Wide vs narrow sunglasses
Left: too wide, Right: correct width

Stocky guys shouldn’t wear skinny ties, but skinny guys totally can.

Petite women will look better with dainty jewelry than oversizes jewelry, while larger women can wear bulkier jewelry very easily.

I think you get the point: when it comes to accessorizing, it’s all about keeping things in proportion with your body.

Tip #4: Don’t cut yourself in half

I don’t mean this literally…although, you shouldn’t do that either. I’m talking about contrast – specifically contrast between the top and bottom halves of your body.

You want to avoid stark contrast between your torso and legs. For example, wearing a white shirt with black pants.

Outfit contrast

Instead, try to minimize contrast by wearing colors are more closely related. Here are a few more examples of low contrast color combos you can try out:

GATs chino shorts polo shirt 6
shoes | polo | shorts
Jeans With a Dark Polo
Everlane Skinny Fit Jeans in washed black (28×28)

Celebrities use this trick all the time to look taller on the red carpet. Assuming your clothes fit, this is probably the best way to maximize your height, or at the very least, avoid looking shorter.

Tip #5: Wear small scale patterns

In the same way that size matters with accessories, it matters with patterns.

You’ve probably heard people say that short men shouldn’t wear horizontal stripes because they’ll make you look shorter, and that vertical stripes make people look taller.

Well, this isn’t accurate. It’s not about the type of pattern, it’s about the size and scale of the pattern.

Horizontal stripes scale

Regardless of what kind of pattern you like – gingham, checks, vertical stripes, horizontal stripes, polka dots – it’s a good idea to wear small scale patterns.

Brock walking up stairs
Gingham, checks, stripes, dots…the important thing to remember is to keep your patterns small in scale (e.g., small checks).

Why? Because large patterns will make you look smaller. Even thick vertical stripes are a bad idea for the shorter, smaller man.

Tip #6: Avoid low rise pants

Pants rise is one of those things that varies widely based on what’s trendy, but regardless of trends, shorter men should almost always avoid wearing low rise pants that sit down on their hips.

Why? Because it makes your legs look shorter.

Here’s the thing: everyone has a different leg to torso ratio. But regardless of where your actual waistline is, your perceived waistline is determined by your clothes.

Low vs mid vs high rise jeans
From the Levi’s women’s collection

So if you wear pants down on your hips, it lowers your perceived waistline (even you have really long legs compared to the average person).

In most western societies, long legs are attractive. They’re a sign of fitness, beauty and athleticism, which is why high rise jeans and shorts are insanely popular in women’s fashion right now. They give you a smaller waist and longer legs. It’s a win-win!

So if you want your legs to look longer, you just have to wear pants higher up on your waist.

Tip #7: Tuck your shirt in

This tip is especially powerful when combined with the last one.

I think medium or eve high rise pants with a tucked in shirt is one of the most flattering outfits a shorter person can wear. It just looks good, and it’s super comfortable.

T shirt tucked in
If you haven’t tried wearing your shirts tucked in – even your casual shirts – you’re missing out!

Tucking in your shirt also fixes the problem of many off the rack shirts being too long for shorter guys. Yes, you can have shirts shortened at the tailor, but if you need a quick fix, just tuck it in.

Business casual summer outfit

Make sure to get a nice clean tuck by pinching the excess fabric in the back and folding it over.

With button up shirts, you can always use shirt stays to keep your shirt tucked in throughout the day.

Tip #8: Wear no break pants

When it comes to pants length, you have a lot of options, from full break to cropped.

Pants break chart
It’s not a perfect science, but when in doubt, go with slight break or no break.

I believe shorter people look best wearing pants with slight break or no break. The cropped look is also nice, especially with cuffed chinos.

Raincoat and chinos 1

If your pants are too long, and they’re stacking up on top of your shoes, it makes you look shorter, as if you’re wearing hand-me-downs or couldn’t find a pair of pants that’s short enough for your build.

Jason Alexander style
Jason Alexander looks way better in fitted trousers with less break. | Photos by s_bukley and EugenePowers / Depositphotos.com

But when your pants sit right on top of your shoes or even a little above, it has the exact opposite effect. It’s as if your legs are just so long, your pants are *almost* too short.

Rajesh wearing blue shirt, navy jacket and khaki chinos

Keep in mind, this does not work as well with pants that have wider leg openings, so go with a nice tapered leg instead (this is easy to fix at the tailor, by the way!).

Tip #9: Avoid bulky outerwear

When it comes to freezing cold weather, you have to prioritize function over form. Sometimes an oversize, bulky parka is totally necessary, and that’s fine!

But in general, bulky outerwear will make you look a bit shorter.

Peter Manning Winter Parka hood up
A classic cut parka will look a bit boxy on a slim build.

That’s why I prefer layering up and wearing warm base layers (like insulated long underwear and thick wool socks).

Flannel layers
A henley over a flannel shirt and vest will provide lots of warmth, even without a jacket on.

I also like thin down jackets as opposed to the really puffers that make you look like the Michelin man, and wool topcoats, which can be just as warm as a casual winter coat.

Everlane Reversible Hooded Puffer Jacket
Not all “puffer jackets” are created equal. This Everlane down jacket is thin but still very warm.

If I do wear a parka, I make sure it’s slim fit and not too long. Mid-thigh is a great length for shorter men and women.

Patagonia Boys Tres 3-in-1 Parka
Patagonia Boys Tres 3-in-1 Parka

And of course, just adding a scarf, hat and gloves will go a long way to keep you warm.

Tip #10: Wear boots

I don’t ever recommend wearing elevator shoes or heightening inserts. These are ugly and bad for your posture.

But many boots come with a 1″ to 1.5” heel built right in. Of all the tips on this list, this is the only one that will actually make you taller.

Topcoat, Jeans and Chelseas - featured
A casual suede Chelsea boot is one of the best footwear staples you can invest in.

Compared to a flat sole sneaker with minimal heel-to-toe drop, a sturdy work boot or even a dressy Chelsea boot will give you a nice little height boot without sacrificing comfort.

Chelsea boots

Obviously, women have more choices here since women’s shoe come with all different heel heights, from flat to six inch to platform.

Men don’t really have those options, but we can still wear boots pretty much all year round (except with shorts).

So when in doubt, go with your boots instead of your sneakers.

But remember…

I hope these 5 tips gave you some idea for getting the most out of your clothing, so you can look like the lean, handsome man you really are.

And remember, my friend, it’s not about trying to be someone else.

There is NOTHING wrong with being short, and anyone who says there is, is obviously very immature and insecure about their own self-worth.

Try to be comfortable in your body. And if you’re a younger man, don’t worry about your height. Worrying is just a waste of time and energy. So focus instead on what you can control, like how you dress.

Thoughts? Questions? Leave a comment below!

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About Brock McGoff

The Modest Man founder, Brock is an aspiring minimalist who enjoys working out, spending time with his family, discovering new brands and creating great content.

Background: Brock McGoff has a bachelor's degree in psychology and a professional background in digital marketing. He believes that men's fashion is just one facet of self-improvement, and he started The Modest Man to help regular guys feel more confident by improving their appearance.

An east coast native, Brock currently lives in Arizona with his wife and daughter. When he's not working, he spends time with family, training BJJ, reading/listening to books and podcasts, and unsuccessfully trying to decide which movie to stream.

Expertise: Brock has built a men's lifestyle YouTube channel with over 400k subscribers. He's also worked as the creative marketing manager in a men's apparel startup. Brock has been quoted in, mentioned by or featured in publications like Esquire, Huff Post, Men's Health, WWD and Forbes.

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  1. Martin Fournier says

    April 27, 2021 at 11:43 am

    You are very good at what you do. Self-confidence is not built-in, you have to work on it every single day of your life. Anything that makes you feel more confident in yourself is to be honed and cultivated. Thanks for the tips and advice. Best regards, M.F.

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  2. Rejean says

    November 16, 2016 at 5:48 pm

    I agree on almost everything you stated except for the low raise pants. I look much better with low raise probably because of torso and legs ratio. I have a very short torso but long legs.

    Reply
    • JohnN says

      November 24, 2021 at 12:12 pm

      My situation exactly! Thank you for making this point.

      That said, the trouble that TMM takes to make his points is very effective.

      Reply
  3. SP says

    November 15, 2016 at 8:19 pm

    Hey wait…at 6:41 in the video you’re wearing a “high contrast” outfit on the right side! Honestly though, it’s not as easy to avoid doing that as you think. I often wear my light blue dress shirts with dark jeans or dark pants because I don’t really like khakis or tan chinos, and tucking a dress shirt into light jeans would look awful.

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    • Brock says

      November 15, 2016 at 8:28 pm

      I don’t really see these as hard and fast “rules” that you always have to follow. I just want guys to understand the principles so they know what they’re doing. You don’t have to follow the rules all the time, but you should understand them. Make sense?

      I hear that contrast is hard to avoid. That’s why suits are so great. Throw on a jacket, problem solved!

      Reply
    • Rollo says

      November 15, 2016 at 9:19 pm

      Just an example of how you can use this idea. A few years ago I had black leather that was too short by an inch or so and made my short torso even shorter. If I had a white t-shirt on, the bottom would extend down past the jacket and the contrast between the black jacket, white shirt and blue jeans really accentuated the problem.

      I switched to a dark colored–navy or dark grey– t-shirt and the whole thing blended together. You couldn’t even notice the shortness of the jacket or my torso.

      Knowledge is a good thing to have. You never know when you might have to use it.

      Reply
  4. Bob says

    November 15, 2016 at 7:39 pm

    Excellent advice Brock. Might be even more useful if you could add a link to sellers of the type of clothing that you recommend in your article…for example a link to companies offering high rise men’s pants.

    Reply
  5. Beau says

    November 15, 2016 at 12:54 pm

    Fair points, as always. But you need some more emphasis for those of us that are short, but not small. Most of your advice is for the smaller guy, but if the emphasis of the blog is “Height under 5’8” you need to cover more than just the small, slender guys. I realize that you are easily available for photos for the slender build, but it would be helpful to have some photos of some heavier short guys for contrast (and not just chunky guys).

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    • Brock says

      November 15, 2016 at 1:03 pm

      Agreed man! I need some other models with different builds. Any volunteers??

      Reply
  6. Cal says

    November 15, 2016 at 12:49 pm

    “clothes that fit” has made the biggest difference for me. Mastering it is an ongoing effort, my weight fluctuates seasonally 5-8 lbs., adding or subtracting an inch around the waist.
    High waist pants are a little hard to find, I struggle evaluating fit when trying on clothes.

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  7. Rollo says

    November 15, 2016 at 10:59 am

    About the rise in jeans. I agree in principle, but I have long legs and a short torso. Long legs might be considered a plus, but it can go too far. You can end up looking like a stump on two legs. Still, low rise is extreme and looks horrible and inappropriate on men and not even great on women. For me low-mid rise is ideal especially if I am tucking my shirt.

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    • Brock says

      November 15, 2016 at 11:39 am

      Excellent point, as always. It’s a principle, but your own leg to torso ratio should be considered.

      Reply
  8. Robert ORourke says

    November 15, 2016 at 10:43 am

    Thanks! I can relate to the oversized watch/ small wrist issue. Actually I tried to order from your link to The Fifth….however their website makes it impossible to make a purchase without joining as a “member”….a bit hokey, and as a result they’ve lost a sale.

    Reply
  9. Brad says

    November 15, 2016 at 10:31 am

    Great video. Nice and simple. Biggest change and best investment is getting clothes that fit. Finding a good tailor or ordering made-to-measure is a life changer. The point about proportions was great for watches as well. The biggest struggle is the part about patterns. Keep it up.

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    • Brock says

      November 15, 2016 at 10:32 am

      Well said. Thanks!

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      • Mikhail says

        December 3, 2016 at 5:16 pm

        Hey Brock,
        You mentioned avoiding vastly different colours for your top and bottom. Does shoe colour play into this as well?

        Reply

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